Why Travel Solo

Why I Travel Alone

and why YOU can too.

Do you find yourself lost in your thoughts of wandering streets in a foreign city? Constantly checking prices on flights to basically anywhere? Waiting for the right time when you’ve “saved” enough money, or when your schedule aligns with your friends or family so you can FINALLY start your globe-trotting dreams? Believe me, I can relate.

I was that kid in college with a world map posted on my dorm room wall, pins in all the countries I would one day explore. I had never stepped foot out of North America, but was consumed with wanderlust, constantly daydreaming about traveling new places and experiencing new cultures. A year after graduating college, I finally had the time and saved enough cash to take my first international trip to Italy with my sister. As we walked through the streets of Milan, we turned a corner and found ourselves in front of the Milan Cathedral “Duomo di Milano”, and I was left speechless. It was an out of body experience I had never really felt before, and in that moment I had truly grasped what catching the “travel bug” meant.

The travel bug bit me hard, real hard. From then on, all I wanted to know was how the heck I could keep doing this and where I was going to go next?

Later that year, my boyfriend at the time and I went backpacking through Nicaragua and planned another domestic hiking trip. Cue the tears, we broke up a few weeks before (wah wah). As the trip approached I sat there pouting- instead of being surrounded with nature trekking in the mountains, I’m sitting in my apartment, alone. F*CK THIS. I grabbed my laptop, found a hostel with good reviews in Chattanooga, Tennessee and booked an overnight Megabus trip for $7 that night. I was done waiting around for someone to have adventures with, I realized I was all I needed.

Looking back, maybe I took that first solo trip to escape and not deal with the emotions of a breakup. Maybe I was trying to prove something to him, myself, or everyone else I was “capable”. Whatever the reason was, that first solo trip changed my life (sounds silly, but listen in). I picked everything- where I stayed, what I did, when I ate, when I slept- completely free of anyone else’s biases.

I also found out all of my previous assumptions about traveling alone could not have been more wrong. Instead of feeling overwhelmed, unsafe, alone, or bored, I felt completely free, empowered, and ready to take on the world. Over the next five years I continued traveling solo through Montana, Glacier National Park, Oregon, Spain, Thailand, Myanmar, Vietnam, South Korea, China, and India - and haven’t looked back since.

There are not many things as transformative and liberating as embarking on your own solo adventure. Here’s why:

FREEDOM

Want to see the sunrise over the ocean? Get up. Want to sleep in until noon? Sleep. Want to hike that mountain? Get moving. Want to sit at the bottom and read a book? Take a seat. Want to leave a city and move on? Go. Love where you are and want to stay another day? Stay. (“Okay, we get it”). You are free of what you want to do, when you want to do it. There are few better opportunities to learn exactly what YOU decide.

PERSONAL GROWTH

Catching trains, buses, carrying all of your belongings, currency, and a language barrier can all be very intimidating. Problem solving and figuring out the bumps on the way (they will happen, I promise) is totally empowering and will give you growth unlike any before. To limit these bumps and be fully prepared, here’s your Guide to Solo Travel.

PERSPECTIVE

New customs, food, culture, traditions. You will come back not just with amazing stories, but a better understanding of yourself and the world around you. On my most recent trip to India, witnessing the incredible happiness and community despite impoverished conditions, humbled and challenged me more than I have ever experienced. You are constantly changing your outlook abroad, hopefully bringing this shift with you in everyday life back home.

CONFIDENCE

Let’s face it, overall solo travel makes you pretty badass. After I came home from my first backpacking trip through Asia I thought, “If I can motorbike through Myanmar and figure it out, I can pretty much do anything”. That high you get from traveling solo carries to other parts of your life too. Maybe now you have the self-assurance to pursue dreams you thought before were out of reach or the courage to cut out what is no longer serving you.

TRAVELING ALONE ISN’T REALLY TRAVELING ALONE

Newsflash: you are much more approachable when you are alone. By staying open and talking to others, staying in hostels, or signing up for group tours, I promise you will meet plenty of solo travelers just like yourself. I have met some of the most amazing humans and lifelong friends from traveling, and now have a comfy place to stay with friends all over the world.

Maybe this article was just the nudge you needed to finally book that trip. I look forward to sharing more on mindful, affordable, and healthy travel here on this blog!

Have you traveled solo? I would love to hear about your experience and any advice you have. What are your favorite solo travel tips and tricks? Please comment below or share with me on social media.

XO,

Jac